Is it just the coffee that tastes bitter without sugar or your love life that never stays lovely starting from the day “Mr. Right” left your heart hanging? I don’t think there is any reason why you have to be sad all your life, what’s important is you still have yourself to carry a heart that could still beat again. Open your doors as well as your windows to opportunities that there might be a chance of meeting a new “Mr. Right”.
Be open and give yourself another chance and try dating again. We know that dating is not a one-shot deal to find the better man. Often we meet few good people and some interesting ones that could be added to our list of never to meet lists again.
To save you from wasting your time, listed below are dating tips to make moving on successful.
Take the Past as an Experience to Learn
As you are from a broken relationship you might probably say that you are already tired of trying new things and you had a fair share of broken hearts during valentines. Erase those bitter experiences and start a new one, take those experiences as something you should consider learning from a person. As you are entitled to a new beginning, take time to meet new friends and enjoy the company of others. You’ll never find your better half if you’re just sitting alone in your room reading pocketbooks.
Girls love to list down things that are necessary so you should also list down characteristics of a person that will make you say that you’ve found the one. Take as an example the characteristics of your ex, choose the attitude that you love and get rid of those rotten ones. These lists may include the personality, work, appearance, attitude and views of life and relationship. These listings will help you avoid getting hurt again because dating could sometimes get tricky, you may meet the same type of person as your ex but this one could either be someone better or indeed a total clone.
Be You and Maintain it
Moving on doesn’t mean you have to change for good, well, there may be some aspects of you that you would want to change for the sake of the relationship it’s alright as long as it doesn’t make you a monster. Remember that you already have a character before you went on a date so this doesn’t mean that once you thought you found the right guy you will give up everything right away. No, stay as you are, relationships are subject to changes, especially on the early stage which is the dating stage so stay calm and observe, if he doesn’t accept you, let him go.
Stick to Your Instincts
What women naturally have is instincts that often save them from danger so you better work on with your instincts while looking for the man of your dreams. If you find this guy attractive and somehow fits your criteria never jump to conclusion right away. Work on your intuition and examine, it may take time sometimes but better things come to those who know how to wait.
Don’t Be in a Rush
You came from a past experience that is better left untold, we know that and there is no way that you would want to experience it again right? if you want to enjoy the life of being single but is excited to mingle, take dates as a fun experience. Don’t be in a rush to find your new love potential, now that you are ready to make a new experience it would be wise to take time and discover each of them. This would give the advantage of discovering the not-so-good side of them tying you into a relationship with that person. However, be open. Who knows? Your match might just be right around the corner.